Art Of Living Life

This is life, a combination of good and bad. In this life we are supposed to live a life with having a particular persona. Persona is the kind of personality a person forms in growing up from childhood to adulthood. We live in the surrounding surrounded by people and we breath in the people. We like to communicate, exchange information and interact with the people. But in the process of growing up, there is a build up of a taste in us. It is actually the likeness for certain kind of people and avoiding others. We all want to be interactive, vocal but only to those with whom we want to talk. We don't like everybody living on this land earth. Instead there is a certain criterion according to which we make a company around us, develop a social circle and make friends. If someone does not fit into it, we simply delete them from our lives by ignoring them or not giving them enough importance in our lives. That's how communities are formed and we all groom together and groom together. Like wise we also want to see certain characteristics in us. The person we are trying to find on this land earth, slowly and gradually we become the one. So we all are in the process of growing up and improving where we at least try to bring and inculcate certain types of characteristics in our personality because we are our best friends. Ultimately we are the people who have to give themselves a company. So first of all we should align ourselves according to our own choice. But its not an easy process definitely. We have to suffer in order to produce the type of personality we want. This is life and we could make mistakes. That's for sure. There is one quality that should be present in that person who actually wants to improve and that is accepting mistakes, learning from them and moving on in life. That's for sure is the trick to have a better life ahead. Most important of all is accepting your mistakes. If we really want to reach high and attain the position we want in our life then we have to acknowledge our mistakes, our lacking's. We should have the courage of accepting them and realizing them. If this thing is present, then this ensures us that we don't have any ego. Ego is the disease which could be very damaging to ones personality and character. But once we have the ability of embracing our mistakes, acknowledging them and accepting them, that's the first step of building a personality of person. Then comes learning. Making mistakes is really necessary if we want to learn from them.

If you have not made a mistake you have not tried anything new

So in order to learn life, we have to make mistakes. We have to make enough mistakes so that we could learn more and more. But these become a crime when we don't learn from them. Learning from them is really crucial. If we had made a mistake and we have suffered and had a bad experience then definitely that bad experience will be our teacher who would guide us what to do next time when the same situation happens again. We feel guilty if we are deep down a good person. It takes a courage for a person to actually learn from it. Because itself a mistake makes a person’s energy low that a person needs an outside motivation so that he feels himself patted by someone else and giving him a hope that everything would be fine but unfortunately we could not find a person every time who could lift us. This is the task that we have to do for ourselves. So at that moment when we actually feel sorry for what we have done, we have to be little courageous of actually learning from its outcome and try to understand what actually happened and why and how could I stop this from happening next time. Because this time in which we are mistaken and we have done a blunder has already gone and future is still looking ahead and we can make it better absolutely. Past is the span of time from where you could only learn but could not go into it and rectify everything. That's absolutely not possible. If we learn from it, we become the better version of ourselves. Then comes moving on. Living with that guilty is absolutely not possible. We have to bring ourselves at easy definitely. We could not live with the burden on our heads. We have to make things easy and simple as well. So try to give yourself a margin. If something worse is done, don't say some bad to you. We are also a human . We could also make mistakes and that's for sure, we are going to make it. We are living here and experimenting everything. Through these experiments we learn to grow and solve the puzzle of our lives. So we need to pat ourselves, love our soul and try to convince ourselves that its okay to make mistakes and then moving on with improvements. We could not remain stuck at one point. Because that depicts the mental illness as well. It shows that we are not mentally stable and signs mental health issues. We need to carry on this life as it is. It could not be perfect, flawless and absolutely pure. It is a kind of rose with petals and thorns as well.